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This wasn't real sound judgement:
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A second witness who was with her husband and granddaughter said her husband tired to help restrain Drozda, but while doing so Drozda reportedly pushed him and their granddaughter to the ground and began kicking her husband.


That almost seems like borderline, if not full on, child endangerment.

I don't care how much of a hero you want to be. When you are dealing with something like this it can be very dangerous.

Why do you think so called domestic disputes are considered such dangerous situations.
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A hero isn't a hero because they want to be, a hero is a hero because they act like a hero, no thinking of the consequences, or of the rewards. They act because someone needs them or the situation calls for it. The girl was in truoble, she needed help and the guy reacted. I'm betting he wasn't thinking about wanting to be a hero at the time.

Your thinking the guy wanted glory reveals your charecter Hymen. :dunce:


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Botto 82 · Posted on Apr. 14 2012,4:09 pm

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The guy's obviously the product of a dysfunctional family. Either dad hit the sauce and beat him mercilessly, or one of mom's boyfriends did after the divorce. The lessons learned there subconsciously come to the surface when a person is stressed.


Then why don't all people who grow up in dysfunctional homes act like that?   And...there are those people who grew up in a "functional" homes who do, regardless of their "good" upbringing?  

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Like I said, add a cocktail of, say, alcohol and/or meth to the mix, and look out, Charlie.


Chemicals can enhance the behaviors, but it's my belief that the poor behavior must already be present for it to "come out" during chemical use.  

Some people physically harm others without the presence of chemicals in their system and many more people use chemicals (such as alcohol) and never hurt another person.  

There just seems to be some who truly believe they are entitled to inflict harm upon others when they aren't getting their way and it is rare if ever that can be fixed with treatment programs, therapy, incarceration, probation, fines, ect...
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A hero isn't a hero because they want to be, a hero is a hero because they act like a hero, no thinking of the consequences, or of the rewards. They act because someone needs them or the situation calls for it. The girl was in truoble, she needed help and the guy reacted. I'm betting he wasn't thinking about wanting to be a hero at the time.


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There just seems to be some who truly believe they are entitled to inflict harm upon others when they aren't getting their way and it is rare if ever that can be fixed with treatment programs, therapy, incarceration, probation, fines, ect...


Leopards don’t change their spots, he was like this from day one, why is it women are attracted to the BAD BOY types... end result is always pain..
It’s obvious this guy can’t control testosterone, he’s far to quick to rage, there’s a cure for that, neuter the S.O.B.


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I think it's highly doubtful women are attracted to men who hurt them, or as you call them, "bad boys."  

It's really no different than making an assertion that if a business owner hires someone who later steals from them, that must mean the business owner is attracted to people who are thieves.
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:angel:  Ok, so how many people would intervene like the grandparents did? Hats off to them. HyVee's parking lot always has alot of people out and about during the afternoon and these are the only ones that got involved??? Let's say thanks to them or there might have been a murder that happened.  It might have gone that far, once things unfolded after that event. Domestic abuse, as sick as it is... happens. I'm glad that creep didn't get away with it this time anyway. Any person that looses their cool in a public place, and then, lets say takes it on the road, puts everyone in danger. It won't be pretty for sure. :(

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A hero isn't a hero because they want to be, a hero is a hero because they act like a hero, no thinking of the consequences, or of the rewards. They act because someone needs them or the situation calls for it. The girl was in truoble, she needed help and the guy reacted. I'm betting he wasn't thinking about wanting to be a hero at the time.

What he said.  :clap:

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A hero isn't a hero because they want to be, a hero is a hero because they act like a hero, no thinking of the consequences, or of the rewards. They act because someone needs them or the situation calls for it. The girl was in truoble, she needed help and the guy reacted. I'm betting he wasn't thinking about wanting to be a hero at the time.

Your thinking the guy wanted glory reveals your charecter Hymen. :dunce:

I'm not necessarily saying that this guy in particular wanted to be a hero.

Plus since I wasn't there: I don't know how old the "grand-kid" was. Maybe they weren't a little kid. Maybe they were 30 years old. Which would make the grandparents probably all that much less likely to be able to effectively intervene.

There are a lot of factors and variables that have to be weighed in each situation.

If you have a small child with you. Bringing them into harms way isn't a very sound idea. IMO

If the guy is 340 pounds 6' 7" and you are quite a bit shy of that. Throwing yourself in front of the car or trying to subdue him yourself, isn't a very helpful thing to do either.

Being a hero in a case like that might just be getting a usable license plate ID.

Also if you think that guys don't try to be hero's to win the affection of the opposite sex. Particularly in the case of trying to protect the so called fairer sex.

You're either naive, or not that bright, or both.

Again I'm not saying that that has anything to do with this case.
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