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busybee 
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Posted on: Sep. 17 2008,5:47 pm |
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Santorini....been down this road already....looking up stuff to understand....for months I've been at this! It's helpful to look to information at Minnesota Sentencing Guidelines or look up crimes with MN statute #'s.
Crim Sex Degrees
This should help
You will really like the second one....
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Scarlet
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Posted on: Sep. 17 2008,8:13 pm |
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(Saggin'Pants @ Sep. 17 2008,6:34 pm)
QUOTE QUOTE If an 18 year old man should register as a sex offender for having consenting adult sex with his 15 year old girlfriend, then yes, these young women should have to register. Two wrongs don't make a right. We are confusing relationships we don't like with pedophilia. It's really sick what we've done in regards to demonizing young peoples relationships. When it comes to some drugs(the ones we don't like) and sexual predation, we've collectively lost our minds. That 18 year old mans life would be effectively ruined, for life. We've become some incredibly sick and self righteous curmudgeons.
I do see your point. I do think that stat. rape thing is wrong...however I was just trying to say that is obviously nothing like this situation. This situation is clearly criminal and should be treated as such.
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Saggin'Pants
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Posted on: Sep. 17 2008,8:26 pm |
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I'm not even 84 but wouldn't mind and bunch of teens touching my body. 
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Mamma
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Posted on: Sep. 17 2008,8:55 pm |
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Well since you're not old....we'll send a bunch of 84 years olds to touch you all over your little body. See if that still seems cute.
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busybee
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Posted on: Sep. 18 2008,12:39 am |
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BestMommy
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Posted on: Sep. 18 2008,9:09 am |
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I personally think that maybe they should be checking into all the nursing homes and assisted living homes to make sure this isnt happen anywhere else. I have worked at an assisted living for almost five years in this town before i finally quit. I had made some good friends and basically found another family by taking care of the elderly. But i do have to say i was disgusted when the people in charge such as RNs, LPN's and especially the directors wouldnt do anything when we were the ones being touched, or physically abused. I think that there are proper ways of handling this and they would get their butts up to help. When they pay thousands of dollars for care each month just to live somewhere, well then they should definately be getting better help. I had a Uncle that lived out at good sams last year. He was on lots of diff meds and in his chart it said what he couldnt eat, well my grandma and i were visiting with him one day and they brought in his dinner and it was the food he couldnt eat! How hard is it to get to know your residents, or heck look in a chart. When we told her, she look in the chart and then chuckled and got him something different to eat. I still wonder to this day if maybe when we werent there for meals if they feed him what he wasnt suppose to eat. Maybe he would still be with us. 
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Santorini
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Posted on: Sep. 18 2008,9:48 am |
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I agree with you Best Mommy.
Too much carelessness.
I think the State will be conducting inspections soon of all of them if they haven't started already.
It usually takes an incident at one facility to promp a sweep of all of them.
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BestMommy
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Posted on: Sep. 18 2008,10:28 am |
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They should also do a mandatory drug test when first getting hired and then continue with random drug testing. Alot of these places will hire an employee, the employee will work for a few weeks or possibly months and then quit or like most get fired for not showing up.. after sometime they always seem to hire them back. I also believe that not just the nurse aides should get tested but the entire facility at random by someone higher then the boss of the building. Alot of problems lay within directors and supervisors. Heck i was never drug tested until this past year until a few residents narcotics went missing, and they never caught that person!
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Santorini
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Posted on: Sep. 18 2008,12:08 pm |
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Again, I agree with you totally, BestMommy.
You've got it right.
I guess, those of us within this system and see the daily goings-on truely are in the know.
I've wondered about the drug testing too?!
Why these places don't require it. One would think that would be at the top of the hire list.
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